It’s a pathetic and sad topic to discuss but we have to , it is a concern to us. We can’t watch it continue but to be factual, some people of Wa are Arrogant and copy others, that’s their problem, let’s be unique for once. Our Fingers are not the same.
Upperwestmedia.net has conducted a research and this shows why marriages cant last longer in the Wa Municipality.
- Marry the wrong woman for Love: hmm, marriage is not always about love, don’t let western world, Television programs deceive you, your grandfather never knew love but he married and it lasted for years that is because he was particular about the right woman not love, lust or beauty. Tolerance, endurance, respect and health was what was watched out for but today it’s color(fair), body shape(fat Ass or breast) and sexual capacity or beauty. That is even why we give birth to unhealthy children; most of these women enhance their shape, color and beauty with creams and drugs which affects them in future. What happens if the shape, color or money is gone?
- Overspending on Women: That is not what they need, they need to know the truth. Teach them how to fish don’t give them fish, even if an animal that gets food everyday happens not to get food at a point would run away or relocate to where there is green grass. Don’t ever spend so much on a woman to lure her into marriage and start thinking she would stay. Most women find it difficult to adhere to change that is about endurance (hard times) because of how they bragged, behaved and what they said to people outside, how would they face the same people when things are going wrong? Forgetting the people you meet going up would be met on your way down. Avoid putting yourself into a position you are not fit into if you want to be there work hard till you get there then after you can show your colors humbly.
- Expensive Marriages: Marry expensive and sleep hunger? No marriage has ever survived on such a formulae.
Don’t ever go for a loan to organize an expensive marriage even if people push you to do so, they hate you. Do the little you can. If she is not satisfied let her go, it is all about sacrifices till the end, if not you will spend on the marriage and if things are hard she would run away. The people who pushed you into it would laugh at you if the marriage doesn’t survive, they won’t travel the marriage journey with you.
Don’t marry women with so many single and searching female friends or in the end those same friends will lure her out. Remember; before you marry her make sure she loves you than you love her don’t ever marry a woman you are madly in love with if not you are most likely to be miserable in marriage. Note: if she controls you so much then you are possessed get spiritual help, its either she has been putting something in your food or she has taken you places.
- Family Interference in marriage: Most family members who are not happy with your choice of woman may react unfriendly towards your wife, force her to react and in the end compel you to send her away for disobedience. So we advice you get your own apartment distant from your family house, distance from family has lasted so many marriages. Don’t be close to family house with your family for any reason. That your sister can end your marriage, your mother can end it, move away from them. You can visit them from time to time.
- Lastly, Spiritual influence in marriage has caused marriages to end when the spell gets broken. Most men or women go into gods to lure someone they want into marriage forgetting when the spell leaves the marriage is highly likely to end, that is what our people have resorted to and this has ended so many marriages so be careful. If this is the option you meant to undertake then change your mind now to something rational because if it is not meant to be it will never be, it is a temporal thing and you the instigator can run mad.
By: Tuorimuo Elvis Philip/Upperwestmedia.net